The diary of a doll

04 May, 2004
7:43 p.m.

Watch out for...
Listening to: Switchblade Symphony: Ava Adore
Mood:

I met many types of guys during my dating days and through all of this I have already learnt what should you watch for when it comes to big nono's. For example; if a guy says he wants to be with you forever and in case you ever wanted to leave he would kill you and preserve your body in an almost fairy-like kind of state (read snow-white on her crystal coffin) and then proceeds to describe how he would do it is bad. Believe me all of you girls and boys if someone tells you that, no matter how romantic it might sound at a point in time (what can I say? I wasn't thinking clearly), it is not good. If a guy or girl cuts themselves over and over again, then take a picture and send it to you telling you how much they miss you it is usually not a good sign either. If a guy doesn't want to have sex with you.... I mean he doesn't even try touching you, I might recommend you go around carefully. To some it is true that they believe it is for the best whether it is due to religion, beliefs or simple fear and that's great for them. A lot of times though it is also a gay man not coming out of the closet, believe me I've seen that one happen more than once. It even happened to someone in my family, she married the man and then found him in their bed with his boss. Soap-operaish as it may be, it has happened so be careful, keep your eyes open and be honest with yourselves. Now if a guy doesn't want to take you to his place and you've been dating for a good while I would go careful with this as well. I've seen too many guys not say everything and not taking their girlfriends to their place that have ended up being married. Of course, some guys will take you to another apartment and even introduce you to their friends shamelessly but that's a wee bit harder to do. If the guy hits on other girls in front of you and you don't have an agreement where it's ok for him to do this, just toss him away. Seriously, those only get worse with age. Not if you happen to kiss a guy on the first date and due to this he thinks you're a slut... well screw him (and no, not literally). The guy that thinks that of you because of a kiss is not worth your time, effort or even thoughts.

That's just a few pointers, some of them you might use them with girls of course but my experience is with guys only. I'm sorry if this just seems like a pointless entry but I'm getting tired of women falling for the same kind of crap over and over again.

Kisses from your devilish and-quasi-bitchy diva; Disco Doll

PS. I was forgetting, if the bastard bitches about you being fat or ugly do yourself a favor and slap him before leaving him.